after infertility..infidelity..divorce....

when my son was 2 months old I discovered that his father had multiple other girlfriends who did not know he was married - I was barely able to walk after severe hemorrhaging - the birth left me very weak and anemic and I was a wreck...

fast forward two years - I left the $#%$, got a divorce, moved back to my preferred coast (the opposite one), changed careers, went back to school and am now a pretty happy single mother living in an idyllic small town

why he went through 3.5 years of infertility treatments while he was busy building long-term relationships with at least two other women I'll never know

why it all had to be so awful and even cliched I'll also never know

my son is beautiful, being a single mother is hard, but not as emotionally devastating as infertility - we work so hard to build families and then it can all fall apart even after conquering infertility.... I just wanted to put this p.s. up there if there is anyone who wanted to know the rest of the story